You know what is so crazy? Chasing. The majority of the population fucking hates doing cardio at the gym, so explain to me why every girl and her fucking mother are CHASING THESE BUM ASS MEN. I just got back from vacation and realized a shit ton after meeting these Florida boyz…
Now don’t get me wrong.. I do think that the chase is fun a little bit, but only when you are receiving the same energy that you are giving. But a bitch wasn’t getting the same fucking energy. Just like everyone and everything else in my life I was dishing out so much and nothing was reciprocated. Figures.
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If you have been reading my blog for a while now, you should know that my heart and mind have been through a lot in the past few months. From heartbreak to realizations… cleanses and reconnections, my mind, body, and soul are SERIOUSLY going through some fucking rehab. While rehabbing my brain, one young lady came to mind. Ms. Kayla **muthafuckin** Birmingham. This lil lady not only is killing it at pursuing her goals and aspirations, but she is also managing to inspire others while chasing her dreams. At 22 years old, she has somehow caught herself a job literally ACROSS the country working, networking, and creating some pretty great things. How though? I’d like to call it discipline, but honestly that word doesn’t even do her justice. I’d say the true word to describe HOW Kayla is doing this is summed up with the following word.. This ones a little different than what I am used to writing.. Seeing how I am either writing about how you can change the world, how to get over a piece of shit guy, or how to make your sex life sound like a version of 50 Shades of Grey. The word relationship is a word that we tend to look at in a very black and white manner. Relationship-- girl and guy together, probably trying to get married, most likely officially boyfriend and girlfriend. But we are forgetting all the other ways the word relationship is used. Two guys together, two girls together, sometimes even three..! Relationships are also talking about the connections between friends, families, and even acquaintances. For example, I consider my friendships to ALSO be relationships, because relationships require work and effort… just like a friendship does. So, I’m gonna write about relationships this week… BUT I am not gonna do the typical “oMG my ex is a piece of shit,” or “I still want him back even though I shouldn’t.” This week I’m writin’ about FRIENDSHIPS No.. I am not going to be doing the cliche “My friends keep me going, my friends are the reason I am here today, my friends are my back bone,” because to be totally honest that is complete and total bullshit. 4/16/2021 0 Comments Ch(EAT)ing (MY ASS)Ladies and Gents… I’m calling all of the people who have been cheated on.
Yes you… emotional cheating still counts, come on over here… I got some expert advice for you. Feeling sad? Betrayed? Sick to your stomach? Hurt? Trust me, I know those feelings all too well. After some serious heartbreak and with some seriously AWFUL sex… I have come to the conclusion that sex is strictly supposed to be cuffed. Well handcuffs… too. But I’m referring to being IN A RELATIONSHIP before fuckin. Let’s get controversial over here for a sec.. And let me spit some opinions real quick about a topic that is very, very dear to my heart. 3/24/2021 1 Comment Ride the WaveEmotions. They are a fucking bitch let me tell you. Not even a week into my first heartbreak and fuck man… this shit really got me all sorts of fucked up. One second I am in my “Bad Bitch I Don’t Fuckin Need You” vibe and the next I am uncontrollably crying into my pillow with literally no sign of recovery. So to be totally honest I would like to say that this shit really fucking sucks. 3/24/2021 2 Comments Effortless Love... MY A$$“I want that effortless love…
The love that you don’t have to worry about, the love that you don’t have to try to maintain. I want the love that just is” This very quote/post is the reason why so many relationships are failing...and why so many people remain single. With a goal like THIS, we will never be able to find a real love. Love is hard, love requires effort, love brings pain, love brings struggle… Love fucking sucks. 3/24/2021 0 Comments Why Love?Whenever I sit down and feel the need to write, it has somethin to do with either sex, love, or mental health. The funny part is that all of these aspects of life are intertwined and have a HUGE impact on our day-to-day lives… well MY day-to-day life.
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