3/16/2021 0 Comments I am SexyWith the time I have given myself to think about who I am as a person, the meaning I gave to the word sexy can describe me perfectly.
Sexy is a word that’s different than other “character trait” words. This one has a lot of different connotations, which is what makes the interpretation of the word a lot more… open. Some people may think of it in a negative light, describing someone as slutty or attention seeking. While some people may think of it in a more positive light, seeing the sexiness as confidence. The problem that a lot of people have with me describing myself as “Sexy,” is the fact that this word is typically used to describe a physical aspect of someone. For example, a woman in a little black dress can “look sexy,” rather than “being sexy.” However, that is where I see the difference in the way I use the term in comparison to the way other people use the term. I AM sexy… I don’t LOOK sexy. And that’s where the difference lies. My sexiness is more than just physical. Now, don’t have me mistaken.. I am physically confident and feel beautiful. However, my sexiness goes much deeper than what can be seen by the physical eye. The mindset of a sexy woman is independent and driven. She does not rely on other people for her confidence, nor for motivation to create and accomplish her goals. This woman has her eye on a prize and flies solo. When adding people into her life, she is very observant of how the individuals will impact her mindset… if there is a sense of doubt or negativity, she quickly (and without hesitation) gives the big ol’ snip-snip. She is aware of what she wants to accomplish and knows a distraction when she sees one. This sexy woman makes sure to continue on no matter what obstacles/challenges are thrown her way. She is powerful, she is unfuckwithable, she is strong, she is ready. She uses her time to grow herself and notices when she has a fixable flaw. She communicates clearly and doesn’t take bullshit from anyone. Most importantly, her mindset is hers. She owns her actions and is always sure of herself. If you notice.. I did not describe NOT ONCE the sexy woman to fit a physical description. The sexiness is in the mind. When a woman can radiate confidence and also create a positive vibe, her sexiness glows… disregarding the physical attributes completely. Contrary to popular belief, being sexy is something that can be a character describing trait. OUR F*CKING PROBLEM is the fact that we tend to follow the societal norms in absolutely every aspect of our lives… we even let them take over our brain to create stereotypes about certain words. Who the f*ck cares if that dress is a little short… or that dance is “too provoking”... forgive me for sounding a bit feministic, but who the fuck is society to tell me how to project MYSELF. You don’t accept me… sucks to f*ckin suck.
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